The Origin of the First Dance

When it comes to traditions and superstitions, there are many surrounding the wedding ceremony. Standing the test of time, they have been passed down for literal centuries and are a fun way to make the big day even more special.

From the new couple cutting the cake together to throwing the bouquet, and being showered with rice, there are tons of wedding traditions we all love to participate in. Perhaps one of the most beloved is the first dance.

The 17th Century Origins

Dating back to the 17th century, the first dance originally had nothing to do with tying the knot — it was held during the balls of wealthy families. Everyone would get all dressed up and show up to show off. It was customary for the hosts and their chosen guests to come together in the first dance of the evening. Once the dance was over, everyone would shake hands and dance the night away.

How It Came to Weddings

Exactly when and how this tradition became customary for weddings is unknown, but our best guess is sometime in the late 19th century. Dancing has long been a way to celebrate milestones and all sorts of occasions — because it is fun.

In the here and now, the bride and groom usually have the dance floor all to themselves during their dance. But this is a fairly new practice. In a 1922 Etiquette guide, it was recommended that the bride and groom not join in the dancing until their guests had begun, and the first dance was not considered a performance, but simply symbolic to the couple personally. In fact, the first dance was more about the guests than the newlyweds.

What It Means Today

The first dance has changed and shifted throughout the years to become what we know today: a great way for the guests of honor — the bride and groom — to share a moment together while also entertaining their guests, and creating a memory that will last a lifetime.